Entering the world of fetish, BDSM, and fetish can be overwhelming at first and very confusing. The best way to make the transition from a vanilla lifestyle, to a fetish lifestyle are these Five steps;
1. RESEARCH
Research is by far the most important key in the transition. Would you buy a CAR, or a HOUSE without knowing anything about it? Maybe but probably not. So always do research about ANY new fetish you want to experiment with to make sure you know the History, Techniques, Safety, and Performance even if this means watching videos and taking notes. Some fetish Practices can be very Dangerous if you are not prepared.
2. Right Partner
DO NOT EVER jump into a fetish relationship, take the time to find the right partner as any fetish practice relys hugely on trusting each other. Rushing in can be very dangerous and traumatize, you and your play partner. There are always meet and greet parties being hosted you have to find them. I offer them in California Once Monthly.
3. Toys
Make sure you have good quality Toys for play sessions. It is important to know your allergies and any products such as lubes, condoms, lotions, and any other edible play toys. You also want Good ropes, dildo's, straps, cages, and any insert-able play device. Clean all toys immediately after play to avoid infection and contamination.
4. Roles
Be sure to know each Partners Play role is, definitively chosen to avoid conflicts that may cause trauma. The object of Fetish is to have fun and Pleasurable, NOT Scary and Damaging.
5. Be Open
Communication is key, if you do not like or are not comfortable with something, LET your partner know asap. DO NOT perform any FETISH PRACTICE if you do not want to.
I hope you find this helpful! Feel free to email me on my site with further questions, and i will get back to you within 48 business hours. THANK YOU!!
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